maybe sometimes people say some mean things, or act in a way that is percieved to be mean because they are trying to look out for your best interests, but when they just talk in a normal voice you don't hear them...no...not at all...they just want to help you...protect you...but you won't let them...so they get angry...not at you...but at themselves...for being too weak to protect you...and i hope you said what you said in a fit of rage, little-one...because you certainly must...and if you don't...then a sad day it is indeed...